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Three Words for 2014

Three Words for 2014

January 1, 2014 By Greg Falken 3 Comments

Truth Deliberate Pillar

2013 words. Illustration by Mike Davenport.

For the past few years, I’ve followed Chris Brogan’s practice of picking three words to use as guideposts for the coming year.

As Chris describes it:

The concept is simple enough: think of three words that sum up what you want to change or work towards in the coming year. Instead of a goal like “lose weight” or a better goal like “lose 30 pounds in the next year”, you might choose a word like “green” to represent an overall commitment to having more plant-based foods in your life, and to restore your body to a more natural state.

See the difference?

This year’s three words are:

Fit

Learning more about health and the things I can do for my body. A major achievement last year was losing all of the 30 pounds that I set as a “hope” (I hesitate to call it a goal) two years earlier. I like the way I feel and want to maintain it for the rest of my life.

Focus

I have a diverse set of skills, which is a good thing, except when it’s not. I need a clearer vision of my purpose, that I can use to set better goals.

Sufficient

In the sense of “enough”, as described in Your Money or Your Life. Enough income to support our basic needs, comforts and just a few luxuries, without spilling over into the accumulation of stuff, debt or unwanted obligations.

Three words photo by Oliver Teicke.

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Insured Again

Insured Again

December 18, 2013 By Greg Falken 1 Comment

Today I paid Anthem Blue Cross the first health insurance premium that I’ve paid since 2008, when our family dropped out of the privately insured market. At that time I was paying more than I could really afford for myself and my son. My wife, who has a preexisting condition, had been off the policy for about a year. When I tried to switch to a different policy with a higher deductible, I was surprised to be denied coverage due to a preexisting condition of my own, which I have since learned was misdiagnosed.

So we joined the ranks of the uninsured. Luckily, we were all relatively healthy (preexisting conditions notwithstanding) and were not in the habit of regular doctor visits. Over the years we had few reasons to seek medical treatment: ob/gyn visits for Amy, a drained cyst for me and lots of dental bills, which wouldn’t have been covered anyway. But hanging over us was the worry: what if something big, or even something medium sized, were to happen? There are too many stories of medical bills wiping out all the money a person has in the world. There but for the grace of God went us.

And it wasn’t like I was ready to rush into battle to fight to get our old insurance back. Not only was it more than we could afford, but for the money we paid out we got exactly nothing back in return. We never reached our deductibles and we paid out of pocket for treatments that we actually received, like dental care and acupuncture.

Obama Healthcare SignatureWhen the Affordable Care Act was passed in 2010, I was cautiously optimistic that it would apply to us. I remember talking with our acupuncturist when we were discussing whether I should try western medicine for a particularly stubborn problem. “You only have to wait four years”, he said. Little did I know the long and contentious route that the law would take to being enacted.

Now here we are, paid up (at a subsidised price that we can afford) and ready to have health insurance in 14 days. I know there are those who say that others are sacrificing so that we can take advantage of this program. To them I say thank you and if our roles were reversed, I would do the same for you.

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Public Prayer: Uniting or Dividing Our Community?

Public Prayer: Uniting or Dividing Our Community?

September 30, 2013 By Greg Falken Leave a Comment

In late August 2013, Tuolumne County became host to the third largest wildfire in California history. The Rim Fire went on to consume almost 257,000 acres or over 400 square miles of forest. At this writing, full containment is not expected before October 1st and there were times when the fire threatened over 4,500 homes. Residents of those homes were under an evacuation “advisory” and many people, including me and my family, chose to leave the area for a time. To many it was a catastrophe of biblical proportions.

On Saturday, August 24th, I attended a town hall meeting at the Sierra Bible Church, one of the largest meeting places in the area. Officials from the Forest Service, Cal Fire, the Tuolumne County Sheriff and the Board of Supervisors briefed the public on what what known and what we might expect in the coming days. At that meeting, District 5 Supervisor Karl Rodefer led the meeting in prayer. He prayed for the safety of the firefighters and other emergency workers. He prayed that those who had been put out of their homes and were facing hardship would have a safe return. He prayed in the name of Jesus Christ.

Listening to this, I had several conflicting reactions. I tried to connect with the words and empathize with the people around me. However, as the prayer continued, I became dismayed that an elected official was going so far into the realm of the church. I’m sure that this view put me in the minority. Many, if not most of people in the hall found the act appropriate and probably drew comfort from it. Supervisor Rodefer obviously offered the prayer in all sincerity and with the intent of supporting his community.

And yet, by doing so, he stopped representing me. I am a non-religious person who does not pray in the traditional sense. If I followed the religion of my heritage, as a Jew I would not pray to Jesus. Supervisor Rodefer’s job at this event was to represent the interests of everyone in Tuolumne County, including the non-believers. By voicing his deepest hopes and strongest concerns in the form of a denominational prayer, he chose to excluded some small portion of us. No matter how strong his personal beliefs, this is not what he was elected to do.

On September 3rd, the evacuation advisory was lifted and everyday life has since returned to normal. The fire still burns in wilderness areas of the Stanislaus National Forest but it will remain contained until the rains come and douse it completely. I hope that in future times of crisis – which will surely come – our elected officials will recognize their obligation to speak in words that are accessible to everyone they represent, regardless of their faith or level of belief.

Photo credit: The decorated ceiling of the Famedio (Stefano Costanzo) / CC BY-NC 3.0

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Three Words for 2013

January 1, 2013 By Greg Falken Leave a Comment

For the past few years, I’ve followed Chris Brogan’s practice of coming up with three words to use as guides in the coming year. This year I want to share them publicly.

Truth

Accept the truth of what is and be willing to speak it out loud to anyone at any time. Be truthful with others about my values and beliefs.

Deliberate

Make specific choices and follow them through. Do not accept the arbitrary. When change is needed, make new choices. Plan, execute and adapt.

Pillar

As in pillar of the community. Be available to offer support to family, friends and associates. Also to provide the support that I need for myself in setting boundaries and the maintenance of health.

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Three Words for 2012

January 1, 2012 By Greg Falken Leave a Comment

WordsOn this first day of 2012, I am following Chris Brogan’s suggestion to pick three words to guide me in the coming year. Because, as Chris says:

Resolutions are often too vague, or too directed towards one goal. It might be “quit smoking” or “lose 20 pounds” or “get hired.” These are all fine aspirations, but I challenge you to dig deeper, to find three words that could be used as lighthouses to guide you through stormy seas, that can be used as flags on the battlefield of your challenges, words that will bolster you and give you a direction that goes beyond the goals you might attach as a result of these words.

So, without further ado, here are my three words for 2012:

Enthusiasm

Bring enthusiasm to the task at hand. Use enthusiasm as a primary signal when choosing to pursue opportunities.

Capacity

Build capacity to engage with meaningful tasks and see them through to completion. Find or build tools and structures to make work manageable.

Distribute

Distribute work among many people. Distribute ideas to people who value them. Distribute myself among people with differing skills and viewpoints.

Happy New Year’s Day to you all and I wish you an excellent year to come.

Words photo by ninasaurusrex.

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